Found an email from another girl addressed to my fiance......what should I do?

First and foremost I am going to admit that I am wrong for snooping in my fiances' email trash box. I normally wouldn't have gone so far as to look through his mail until I saw an email from another girl with the subject line "Hanky pank wear". My curiousity got the best of me and I kept looking through his trash box only to find a couple more email from this girl by the name of Bree. I wondered who this girl was so I started to read and found that she wanted him to email his memories of her so she could write a story about memories they shared together in the past. The other email I just spotted today was entitled hanky pank wear and she wrote him saying "hanky panky underwear--google it NOW! I was a little confused but thought light of it since we just got engaged two weeks ago. I was curious and decided to check out his email settings and saw that he filtered her very email to skip to inbox. What should I do or think? I think this is a bit shady....what do u think?

Found an email from another girl addressed to my fiance......what should I do?
The part that doesn't make sense here, is you saying he filtered her email to go to his in box.


Emails go to your in box if you DON'T filter them.


Do you mean he's filtering them to go to the trash?


Clarify, then you'll get answers.





Anyway, it sounds like it's in the past, so who cares? Unless you saw something that indicates it's happening now, why worry?


Surely you don't think that he had no girls before you, right?
Reply:i would rethink marrying this guy
Reply:You must not have trust in him to begin with if you are snooping in his email. I would ask him about it. I dont understand what you mean when you said -"he filtered her very email to skip to inbox"
Reply:Kinda sounds like me... You see, my nick name is Bree, but thats beside the point cause I dont email guys.





You should talk to him, ask him about it. But he will most likely get a lil mad cause you looked through his emails. But if he loves you and is seeing another girl, girl-he aint right for you.
Reply:you are right this is a bit shady...i guess the only thing you can do is to talk to him about it..and dont forget to mention that you have checked his email accidentally..etc...
Reply:I get the snooping, I truely do. Stop doing it though, or you're going to end up getting exactly what you asked for. As for those emails, it sounds like spam that he's directing straight into the trash. Unless he replied to her, I wouldn't worry about it.
Reply:Confrontation time. When were the emails sent?
Reply:Was there anything incriminating in them? like I had fun or call me again something like that.. that sound sstupid anyway about the memory thing. Its like she want him to remember her. Unless she has amnesia which I doubt. The last email may have been something people forward nothing personal... I would google it then tell him later on that YOU got a weird email about hanky panky from so and so and you wished they quit sending that to you.... so when he opens his emails and see it hes going to think oh crap maybe that will be enough to make him stop
Reply:just talk to him
Reply:make sure it is not a friend then I think you should confront him again if you already haven't and ask him why is it there. Then if he gives you a crummy answer. Tell him that you better not find another girls email on there again and it is over
Reply:If he filter all her emails to go to the trash, clearly he's not interested in her emails. Give the guy the benefit of the doubt
Reply:I admitt it looks kind of weird.. Maybe you should confrunt him.. even if it is very tough to say to him you looked on his e-mails.. But this is something that will continue to bother you. So better say something to him.. see what he has to say..
Reply:Sounds shaddy, you sure it just isn't one of those e-mails from a porn site or something like that. Don't jump to conclusions, but don't be a fool either. Time will tell.