Can you email someone after 3 years?

ok so after 5 years of being this girl's best net friend and meeting her etc, she says she can't talk to me anymore so she can concentrate on her real boyfriend, but that we will always be friends. She then wipes her email address. For the next 3 years ive been wanting to speak to her again, and now I think I know her new email but I don't want to spook her by emailing again. Also I will be too disappointed if she doesnt reply, and Im pretty sure she wont. But I want to email her. What do I do?

Can you email someone after 3 years?
I would say it depends on how well you two knew each other. If you were close, and she's no longer with the boyfriend, dropping in a line to see how she's doing could be a really good idea.


However, if you didn't really know her very well, you may just come off as creepy. I would explain how you got the email address, and start with a really breezy, really short message. People always like to know others are thinking about them, so I think as long as you don't get too heavy right off the bat, you'll be fine.
Reply:email her. what have you got to lose?
Reply:don'ty e-mail her, call her that way you will be guaranteed she will reply.
Reply:If she hasn't contacted you in three years, I'd let it go, especially if you don't think she'd reply. Sometimes friendships are in our life only for a period of time, maybe not as long as we'd like. I'm afraid you'll carry it with you for too long if she doesn't reply, like you said.
Reply:i think it wood be fine 2 email her dont be creepy stalkerish n ask her out or anything but just say hi wat have u bin up to in the last 3 yrs lol
Reply:First you need to ask yourself if you want to be more than friends with this girl, if you do then you definitely should NOT email her as she most likely is happy in a relationship and doesnt want to be disturbed by other guys. If you honestly want to be her friend then just send a simple email which says hi, remeber me? If she does not reply leave her alone for good.
Reply:You think too much. It will make your brain hurt. Then you will turn to drugs to make the pain stop. All because of a girl, you will ruin your life.





Say NO to girls, say NO to drugs.





The Rat
Reply:She said she didn't want to talk to you anymore. Respect that she made that decision and leave her be.





Let it go and pour your time and energy into a girl who wants to communicate with you.
Reply:i think you should email her and if she doesn't email you back then let it go.
Reply:Dont email her
Reply:don't do it...as nice as the sentiment sounds, i think she'll more than freak out if you did... but hey, if you're prepared for the worst, then go for it...no one should stop you, the world can't go round without stalkers...
Reply:yes if they still have the account open
Reply:email her what do u have to loose!
Reply:It depends how you got her email. If it was on one of those emails that people send round to everyone in their contact list and you happened to see her name, then you could try dropping her a couple of lines telling her you'd noticed her and wondered how she was getting on. If your address hasn't changed then I'd be dubious as it means if she'd wanted to be in touch she would have.


Good luck whatever you decide.
Reply:just e-mail her and act like you don't know her lol...